Sunday, April 27, 2008
There have been times when we tend to neglect our children when we got so busy. But I think we should try our best to make all things in all situations to be on the right track. Many parents do not think that at a young age of nine or ten, a child could never manage to think for themselves. Children are left alone at home to take care of themselves or maybe living with a maid most of the time. Do you think these children don’t have a mind to think or a heart to feel? Children will feel lonely or maybe this will lead them thinking why their parents don’t care for them. I see many of these children have a life on their own, wandering around with friends or maybe some will get addicted to the computer and games most of the time. Things will be worst if this children mix with the wrong people. The more this situation prolong during their growing period, this children will lead to a world of their own without any guidance of meaningful balance lifestyle. Maybe this parent will tell their children this is their time to earn more money or maybe this parent just have a love for their own life than they should give to their children.
Some children are left with grandparent which this children will later throw tantrum on their poor grandparent. Parents should really have a full responsibility for their own flesh and blood. Even if they left their children for their grandparent to take care, it is different kind of love that share among them. Not all children could accept this. All children have their individual character and habit. So as a parent we need to be really careful to think about how they feel too. I always make this as my first priority. I feel that children have their way of thinking. If you do not look into this, what will they grow up to be? How these children will be in the future is depend on how the parent moulds them to be.
I wonder where are those day when we are young and our parents are so busy with their work but still have some quality time for us. Spend some time for dinner or maybe supper. I just love those days when we can spend those special moments with our parents. I always miss those times even until today, I still mention it to my mom. She really is my great mom. And all that she had done for us are unconditioned. I want her to know she had done a great job to be a 101% mom.
I hope God will always guide me to be more patience and grant me the energetic and healthy self to take care of my children and family.
Monday, April 21, 2008
Everyone have their ability to adapt to something in life. At times you find there are no one to share the burden you are bearing, and it’s that feel that’s in your heart that cause you so much pain. Will you feel like dying, or maybe you just don’t seem wanting to do anything at all. You just feel like hiding from everyone because in your heart you just can’t face the world.
But every day you can notice that many people around you are losing their job or maybe there are no job for them, and they need to feed their family, they have no way to find a job. Is there anyone to help them?
Especially now in Malaysia, many people are jobless, especially those that consist of big family and their income are really not enough for their family with so many school going children. Pricing for food and almost everything in living have gone up really high. What about children’s education fees? And their tuition fees, books, uniforms, shoes and food. And when the breadwinner is jobless, who is going to settle expenses such as house rental, electricity, water and miscellaneous bills. They can borrow from close relative to help them but how long can this people help you when most people is going through during this tough time.
And jobs as what we can see are mostly given to those immigrant from others country. If that’s the case, why shouldn’t government think of a way to supply more sufficiently for this lower income people? http://www.yapthomas.com/index.php/2008/03/27/suaram-migrant/
I just wish they will be strong to get through this kind of lifestyle. We try the best to help whatever we can afford. I know many people are in the same situation as these people. May God bless you too.
Saturday, April 12, 2008
Life is filled with wonderful things. We tend to forget things we wish for everyday. We sometimes could not bother to review most of our goals in life that we wish to do, which are useful and could bring many real good values to us. Sometimes, I try to sit quietly to relect those days that had been wasted and prayed to God to guide me to understand the true meaning in life and to guide us to take note of the little things or subject we used to forget.
This is part of our journey in life. So we must not be so unsure of our life. We must be responsible of what we say or do.
For our family we need to put all efforts in building a good foundation for our children, especially what they want for the future. Nowadays children are really very observant and demanding of what they want or need in the near future.
Even on their education they will know which subject or area which they are weak in and need your assistance to help them to excel better. Children's life is very challenging and much more interesting than many many years back.
As their parents we need to be very sensitive too. Children need us to be there for them because nowadays they are involve with too many activities. We need to be really alert on their activities and what type of life our children are going through. We need to understand and walk the path together with our children during their growing up days as we don't want to miss all these growing up happenings that they are involved in. We want to be part of them. We have to plan for them properly of which way they want for their future, help them to select which is the best school to suit them and lead them all the way to achieve their goals. Explaning all things in details and always be transparent to them. We need each other's view and opinion to make things right. Freedom of speech and thoughts. And being a good friend to them too. Well, it is part of life.
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
Sometime when we are going through tough times in life, I try to take a moment for myself. And try my best to make it right. Just look around us and always count the blessings, one by one.
Then I tell myself...I've got my family and my home, I've got love from family and friends, I've got a little talent of writing poems, being a dedicated wife and mom, I always have the company of my husband and children, I'm glad that my mom is healthy and strong, I have a younger sister and her family that really care and love us, most of all, I'm glad, I'm alive to see all this people around me that really love me. I've got so much more thing in life to do. That's why each day is a blessing. And we always make sure to thanks God for every good things in life for He is our provider and every burden we have He will always bear it for us. Glory to His name!!!
Yes! YOU always near
Yes! YOU never leave
Dear LORD thankyou for your care
Dear LORD thankyou for your faith in us
You have done so much
where at time we never know
and at time we seem to forget
but LORD you never leave
Your faith and patience in us are so great
You give us the best and take away the bad
You give us love and shower us rainbows
Oh! Dear LORD thankyou
For so much in life
You always guide and lead us
Your unfailing love for us
And miracles you send to us
Thankyou O Lord
My Heavenly Father.
God bless you richly, and prosper your ways in Him.
Ps 18:32 It is God that arms me with strength, and makes my way perfect.
Jude 24 Now to Him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of His glory with great joy.
Sunday, April 6, 2008
This journey of my life was so meaningful eventhough there maybe time of unhappiness due to ups and downs. But when you look to the brighter side in your life, you will know you have done a good job in getting over it.
Marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well.
How precious also are Your thoughts to me, O God! How great is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would be more in number than the sand; when I awake, I am still with You..." Psalm 139:13-18
Praise HIS name !!!
Saturday, April 5, 2008
my whole life through
with your love
I just can't stop falling for you
Wanting more of you
grow deeper each day
we are meant to be
hold me tight
take my hand
take my whole life